REALITIES
Older Men Are Much Better Dating Partners
Men are like wine — they get better as they age.
Older men are much better at dating compared to younger men. However, it’s not because they look mature. It’s primarily because they have more refined qualities that younger men lack.
That doesn’t mean younger men cannot achieve the same. But with their current state, they need more time and experience to understand things fully.
They’ll get there eventually.
That said, older men no longer think like children. They are well past their unfiltered adolescence of late-night partying, skipping classes, and stupid lollygagging — been there, done that.
As women, do you think we would enjoy going out with some guy who, in his early 20s, lives like there is no tomorrow? Perhaps for a quick fling, yes. However, we desire more than that.
It’s no secret that women seek status, security, and stability in a relationship.
And older men can bring these needs into a relationship, sometimes, even more than that. They don’t beat around the bush and play games. Their profound sense of maturity and stability is what we seek in a guy.
With age comes wisdom
With years of experience, older men can stimulate your mind better than any self-centered youngster. They are great communicators and have the knowledge and wit to back it up.
Having been brought up in life at a different time, an older guy can have many opinions and points of view on topics. In turn, they can spark quite interesting conversations.
They always have a story to tell! And it only gets better each time he says something.
Stability
Older men are much better because they have already built a life before you. But this time, they want you to be a part of it.
Someone older is highly likely to have done it all — a great career, a solid living arrangement, being part of a community, and having assets.
When one of life’s problems comes knocking on the door, rest assured that they are waiting on the other side with boxing gloves on, ready and eager for a fight.
Guidance
Since they know and have so much, older men can’t help but guide you on the right path to success.
They know how the world works because they’ve been through a lot. And they don’t want you going through such hard times.
They believe and value you! It’s such a sweet gesture, like a nurturing hand watering down a growing seed.
Old romantic souls
Most older men are worn out and shattered by thoughts of having a loving relationship. They have encountered their fair share of heartbreaks. Yet, they still seek the love they deserve.
Maybe it’s the 80s cheesy love music that keeps them going? Or perhaps they know it’s better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all?
Either way, they understand that having a relationship isn’t easy. It can sometimes be difficult, but it doesn’t mean it can’t be worth it.
So, are you the type of woman attracted to older men?
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